The Year of You.

What a kickoff to the new year it has been. My New Years eve was spent at my second home base of Killington Resort Vermont, a widely popular destination for many of us in the northeast who enjoy the adrenaline of some downhill action at the beast of a ski resort that it is, spreading…

2016 Year in Review.

How was your 2016? The year itself has been a struggle for many. Apparently we had an election? Actually, I can confirm we did just by scrolling through my social media feeds. Bring back Facebook! It looks like CNN ate it. Despite the election, the year 2016 for me was one with many successes. Kicking…

Love is a Battlefield

Don’t let love go. Why do we complicate the simple things in life? These simple things, are the ones we too often take for  granted. We are compelled to keep searching for something better in the world, but is that what we really need? Recently, I did some research on the topic. To my surprise,…

Don’t Rush the Love.

Have you ever sat and reflected on what is going on in your life? You know, took a little time out for yourself to recollect your thoughts and bring yourself back to center stage? Odds are, you have not. I’m also guilty of doing the same. We live in such a fast paced world that…

Gay. Single. Weekend Warrior.

Weekends were made to set yourself free. It’s a Saturday night. Evening wear is out and ready to be steam pressed.  Shower is on as a miniature facial is in process to maintain a youthful look for the long evening ahead. What’s planned? Absolutely everything. Welcome to the single gay mans weekend. A combination of…

Where Do You See Yourself in Five Years?

I stumbled upon a book recently. It was a book I had purchased at a Starbucks exactly five years ago, and it had been kicking around the house ever since. The title? “Where do you see yourself in five years?”. Well, perhaps it’s ironic that I would find it again five years later. As I…

Don’t Date Down!

You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with. Have you ever been on a date and sit there wondering what you’re even doing on the date in the first place? We’ve all been there. That one date that we saw so much potential in while chatting on an app and then…

Kate Hudson is Making Us Pretty Happy. 

You don’t have to be perfect. Pretty happy is pretty great. Kate Hudson has absolutely nailed it in her latest book approropriatey titled, Pretty Happy. A book geared towards healthy ways to love your body. As someone who is always on the prowl for the latest self help books, my eyes lit up when I discovered…

Never Stop Reinventing You.

Practice makes perfect. At least, that’s what we are told in life. As humans, we are bound to make mistakes over the course of our lifetime. It’s in our DNA. Each day, we aim for absolute perfection, but why? Perfection is boring. Perfection also causes us not to make mistakes, and if we are not…

The Gay Dating Game.

Grindr. Scruff. Tinder. These three magical apps are perhaps the most active on my phone these days. I use the term magical loosely. As a single guy, looking for love requires more than just seeking a one time hook up at a local gay bar. Looking for love requires you to do your research. It has…